Your laptop or desktop is fired up and your Wi-Fi can handle what is about to go down.
You go to the cybersex dating site you heard so much about and you head over to get things hot and steamy, but if it is your first time you’re going to need to read this first to prevent privacy invasions or a faux pas so damaging you won’t come back from it.
Don’t show your face
You know all those politicians and famous people we mock for having their nudes leaked or hacked?
We only know it is them because they leave their faces in the photo. You should never write an email you do not want read back to you in a deposition and you do not want to have your face in photo you want associated with you forever.
Especially one you have control over. If you are engaging in cybersex with anyone, be they friend or loved one, or stranger keep your mug out of the photo to protect your privacy.
The Internet is forever, keep that in mind before you press send.
Engage in Foreplay
When you pick up a book or magazine it does not just hit you in the face with the plot. You have to work to get there.
When someone is not directly in front of you it can be difficult to get things or going jump right into the best part.
Use your words and romance them through the written word. It may not go well at first but once you establish what they like you will be off to the races.
Do not be afraid to take your time and get your dirty talk on before the main attraction.
Consent Exists Online Too
This is the most important to any sexual relationship be it online or in person. This is a human being on the other side of the chat messenger or video screen.
They have thoughts and emotions and feelings and they need to be respected just as if they were in person. Just because you are communicating with them via technological means does not mean you get to strip them of their personhood.
The internet may be the Wild West but there were still rules that governed the frontier. FreeCyberSexSites are no different, you do not want your username known as the creepy person in the chatroom.
Make Sure Your Cyber Security is Up To Date
It is no secret that the darkest part of the web is littered with places where you can get malware or viruses.
Anyone who has been to a porn website has seen unwanted pop-ups and downloads latch on to their computer.
You need to invest in serious cybersex security if you are going to be a frequenter of cybersex sites.
So the next time McAfee sends you that popup about updating your antivirus software take them up on it and keep your computer running at high performance.